AESara
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Why not consider getting a JAcksons chameleon?
I am nowhere near an expert on the Jacksons chameleon but that is a good option if you do the research. You've kept a beardie and from the sound of it he lived a pretty good life. I don't think that you should necessarily give up on getting a cham, but it would be best (in my opinion) to resign yourself to getting one of the species that we've established are good for beginners to cham keeping. I want rudis and possibly oustaleti someday in the future myself, but I started with a veiled because the helpful people here suggested it as a good first chameleon. Panthers and Jacksons are also considered good options for new cham keepers, like some others have said.
However, it is important to note that you said one of the reasons you don't want the anoles is because they escape. Chams are pretty good escape artists themselves. I'll never forget the day Napoleon found a way out of his baby cage (through a hole the crickets chewed in the mesh). That hole was barely the size of a dime. I searched for him and sobbed an entire day until I finally noticed him staring at me from a hanger in my closet.
Back on topic, I don't think you're a bad person. I just think you're letting yourself get a little bit too excited. I can't speak for everyone else of course but I'm guessing they feel the same.
How about this? It will be good practice for you and will get everyone to take you more seriously if you answer well.
https://www.chameleonforums.com/how-ask-help-66/
This is usually used for people who have a sick cham and want to learn what they are doing wrong (if there is something wrong), but try answering the questions as though you are describing the care you would give your cham. If you know which species you are currently considering, answer separately for each one.
It would also be a good idea to list what you think you will be paying for each item you mention, as well as how much you expect you will be paying in a week or a month of proper care.
If there is something you don't know, be honest about it and someone here will certainly be glad to fill you in. If someone notices that one of the prices you expect is off, hopefully they will inform you of that as well.
Just an idea, and sorry for the long post.