JaxyGirl
Avid Member
I agree with this 100% Without being able to hear the tone of voice, mild criticisms or advice that is meant to be helpful are often interpreted in the worst possible way. I find this with emails also, so when offering advice it's best to try to word it such that it can't be taken too harshly. I've read threads here, as I'm sure everyone else has, where the OP totally got bent out of shape when someone gave them what they interpreted as harsh advice when in reality the person offering help was just being straightforward and honest. As in for example "you need to take that cham to the vet ASAP! he looks very dehydrated" (or something along those lines) I'm sure there are quite a few examples like this on this forum.
It's amazing how easily things can be taken wrong on CF. I do think that it is hard to communicate what one wants to say via writing and things just get misconstrued and blown out of proportion. Which I think is a shame really because I think that everyone on here is on here because they want the best for the health of their chams or they wouldn't be on this forum in the first place .