My male is nowhere close to how sweet my female was. My little girl, Flower, loved to be taken on walks and explore. She even escaped on day one and calmly walked back onto my hand and back into her home. Pete, on the other hand, has tried to bite me, my mom, my little brothers, two cats, a dog, and a Guinea pig. The cats were on the other side of his enclosure, wile he crawled up to both of the dog and Guinea pig and tried to bite them. He is definitely not the norm, but in general the females are kinder.