If you are doing all the research and making sure that the temps, humidity, food, and lights are all correct then it shouldn't die. You cant just get pets expecting them to die because they arent taken care of properly.
This honestly makes me really upset... "fingers crossed he last a while" WHAT... This is a living animal. It is your responsibility to provide EVERYTHING it needs to live a LONG healthy life.
Well regardless I have now tried to help them repeatedly... Both chams dying. This last one I told them it would die if they did not provide what it needed. I am tired of seeing this mentality. And if it is a child us being all sweet and nice about them being at fault does nothing. They do not learn because we make it ok. The fact that they are going into this situation thinking they hope this one lasts... Says a ton to me and I am not going to bite my tongue making it ok for them.
I won't say what I want to say. You have been more than civil. I got my flingers crossed he doesn't end up getting one yet. Sorry, but there is no luck involved with raising any animal. It is proper care, every animal needs it and needs it daily. Even a plant needs proper care.
, I don't disagree with what you said, I just don't know if it'll change much. I've seen countless animals on this forum die, why do you think half the time I've told people to go blank themselves lmao.
Ah yes. This is where it's at. Lol.
No, your probably right I am but I am not feeling well today and it is contributing to my sensitive side popping up.I think you're being overly sensitive with me saying grilling
Ok. I’m going to be blunt and perhaps even rude and sound like a mean old lady
but here goes. Kid, adult, whatever you are...if you are thinking that crossing your fingers is going to keep an animal alive, guess again. It is not luck or chance. It is care...not just providing the proper lighting, supplements and all that, but actual care on your part for the animal! You have to care about the animal just as much as you need to provide care for the animal. There are no simulators for that...you either care or you don’t. Your attitude tells me that you have little care or value for the life of any animal. Save yourself the guilt and please don’t get anymore live animals. I have tried hard to be gentle and encourage you to step up and research, explore and learn, but obviously that failed. Stick with the video game pets, although you say those die too. I’m done with this thread.
Young... They have been here the last year. Asking for help on multiple issues.
I know I have not been on here long. However, sweets you may wanna try a plant for a little while. Not trying to be mean. But try for a more difficult plant like an orchid. Ans if you can get that baby to bloom then try for another animal. I think you need time to heal and time to comprehend that you are in charge of a life. Everything you do will determine the outcome of whatever efforts you have put in. No effort equals sick animals and plants. If you want minimal effort then a live Animal is not for you.... let's just be honest. You have needs but so does your Animal and they can't be just sub-par. You can't live without proper nutrition well neither can a plant or animal. Just think about it before you dive in again...... seriously
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