So just cruising through the forums and decided to see the latest podcast...
http://www.chameleonbreeder.com/podcast/ep-79-mourning-your-chameleon/
Found this unexpected topic. It is well done in my opinion and I hope some of you check it out. It just may help.
Here is one quote that I especially found to be helpful...
"Now, It is incredibly hard to find a silver lining in this, though a universal truth is that the sadder you are, the deeper you loved. And the deeper you loved, the more the relationship changed you. And that is a beautiful thing. Beautiful things are not always free of pain and change as a human being is rarely with out discomfort. Regardless of whether you can see good in this or not, there is no getting around that right now you feel horrible. And I am going to say that is okay. It’s healthy. You lost a friend. Allow yourself the time to process what is happening. This is not the time to dull your feelings by immediately replacing your chameleon. Give yourself time. Don’t worry, another baby chameleon will be available when you have worked through your sorrow and figured out what happened." - Bill Strand
Great job Bill!

I hope you don't mind but I will probably link this a bunch for people to see.