Hey everyone, I really appreciate the thought out responses! I just got off work and it's late so I'll have to get back to this thread tomorrow.
The hanging baskets can come in for the winter that's fine, I was talking about things that I could plant. I do have some hostas I think on the shady side of our house, didn't check if they flowered. Our bushes around our driveway get little flowers too. My mom has lavender at her house, and my wife loves it, but I don't think it'd get the sun it needs. There are also these hairy/fuzzy whiteish green plants that have spread through my mom's yard, they shoot up purple flowers that the bees love, but I think they may need the sun too.
I had some thornless bramble, but it died for some reason. Passion vine would be really cool, but I figured they'd die over winter and if not don't they need loads of sun? Blueberries would be cool simply for the blueberries, never tried to grow them, do you get a lot?
@snitz427
We have what I think is honeysuckle taking over half our woods, I tried to plant some last year, but It died over the winter.
Haven't tried growing clover, would have to look into that.
Still not sure about adding a tree/shrub of some sort for the cham to actually utilize, open to ideas.
We have a lilac in our yard, I feel like it blooms for a week and goes back to being a big green blob for the rest of the spring/summer

. We also have the hibiscus that grows around here, thoughts on that? Would it bloom in mostly shade?
Overall I'm not too concerned with toxicity, my guy doesn't bother with vegetation. The toxicity in some fruit trees would be a little iffy though