some guys/gales like to eat alone! my vieled will not eat from my hand or cup...he will run away or hide himself behind the limb like "you cant see me" LOL. i spoil him a little when it comes to supers,meals and wax worm feeding. i take the lid off the container they come in. count out how many i want to give, wedge the lid mid way up the cage(without distorting the rim..) between some vines or the cage and walk away. normally i will walk inside and watch him through the window. also with crickets he does better if i pinch the rear legs off. very easy to do just grab the cricket and take your finger nail and crush the inside of the knee and it falls right off. makes the cricket much slower and they cant jump!! just some stuff to try if you havent already.