If I were to say, "Stay away, no one loves you here" that would be the truth, and what you personally asked to hear. However, that could be considered an insult, which is against forum rules. We are supposed to be friendly, or say nothing. So, you are asking people to break the rules, which in itself is, against the rules. Please don't break the rules Ben.
(I know your real name isn't Ben, but its against the rules to reveal personal information about other members, and you sort of look like a Ben)