Need help sexing bearded pygmy

[emmys824]

I thought this was a male when I bought it, but I don't trust myself after I bought a temporalis thinking it was a bearded.

 

[ferretinmyshoes]

Yes, I'd say male.

 

[emmys824]

So, I just got a "female" brev (this is what I was told) and now I am even more confused about sexing these guys... I have been studying and studying all that is on the net about it, but to me my 2 look the same. I am worried that I could have 2 males, as they are both really dark in color. I just put the new one in the enclosure, so could the stress be due to just getting used to everything? I will try to get a few pics of the new one in little bit, but can I get more opinions on the one pictured above? Thanks!