Might of found my problem!
So I might of found a big reason of why I stress her out so much. I was informed that they don't like black, red, or pink and any splotchy pattern. Those three colors are the main colors in most of my clothes, and especially coats or sweatshirts which are mostly what I wear now that it's so cold here. So this might be a reason shy she's been getting so angry. So hopefully if I change it, and put some plants on the top, I won't be such a big stress to her.