I found like 8 of them!!, And most of them had huge females in them! I don't know if it was the right thing to do but I cut them out, I was able to find and save 6 pairs.
And lucky me I have had 2 females breed and lay twice so far! And a 3rd is paired again right now! I have found that I have way more males than females right now so after the female lays her first batch I have been putting her in a separate box with a few "fresh" males. It seems to be working very well, we will just need to see if they are futile