Heart breaking

MamaD

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I have to admit that I am crying my eyes out as I post this. I have many male and female Panther and Veiled Chams under my loving care. Each one is special to me and it isn't hard to fall in love with each and every one of them. Today is especially sad because one of my older female panthers is most likely not going to make it through the day. We have had many health problems with her since the day we got her. She gets extra special love and care from me always. Her biggest challenge has been that from day one she didn't begin laying infertile clutches at all. We decided it would be wiser to keep her as more of a pet and not breed her at all. At first it was fine and learned that sometimes a female will absorb clutches. Not the best scenario, but possible to live with. After a long time, she started to fill with eggs and we were hopeful she might lay this time. She dug and attempted to lay. After much time she managed to lay one or two eggs at a time until she finally finished. The next time didn't go so well. Despite every effort to keep her from becoming egg bound, it happened. Now, she has slowly declined and is slowly on her last moments. She has completely stopped eating now. Never moves and I have brought the basking light to her where she can be warm. She is too weak to make it to the water, so I am hand watering her with a little dripper. I know I have done everything possible to avoid her passage. But it still breaks my heart to have to watch her go. Is there anything else I can do to make her more comfortable in her last moments? With tears still in my eyes...:(
 
I am very sorry to hear this... Has she seen a vet about this? I think there is a med they can give her to stimulate the passing of eggs, though i cannot remember what it is called:confused:
 
Thanks for the sentiments. We've tried it all. I think it's just her time. Doesn't make me feel any better though. You just get so attached to them.
 
It is awful watching one slip away and feeling so helpless. My first female died in my lap and it was the most awful thing to sit through, but she wanted to be with me. We really do get very attached to them. I was totally unprepared for how hard Lily's death would hit me. I really wasn't expecting such grief. She taught me such a lot, bless her. You couldn't have done any more for your girl, and I am sure she had a much longer happier life with you than she may have had elsewhere.
 
I am so sorry to hear about your girl. I know how heartbroken you must be. It hurts to loose the ones we love. We are blessed to have them in our lives for the time we do. My heart goes out to you.
 
Hopefully she will make it through! I get attached to all my pets even the small betta fish I got. Im hoping the best for you and her...
CR
 
Thank you all so much. It really does help to hear from others who have gone through the same. On a much happier note...one of my female veiled just laid and another clutch hatching soon! It's amazing how something great happens just when you are feeling so awful. Mother Nature knows just how to cheer us up!
 
I am so sorry for your heartache. Thats really a terrible thing to go through. I havent lost a chameleon yet, but i did lose my baby savannah monitor to seizures. I am terribly sorry, my deepest condolences. I sincerely hope things turn out well! Best of luck!
 
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So sorry to hear what your going thru. Your story made me tear up. Youve done so much for her, at least you have the consolation of knowing you did you best. I know that doesn't make it easier to bear.
 
very sorry to hear this, it wasnt long ago i held my momma quad for the last hour of her sweet life, i still miss her, its never easy, but at least you know you did what you could and provided her with the love and care she deserved.
big hugs
hoj
 
Many thanks to all. Monica has since passed in the last hour. I'm just glad she isn't suffering anymore.:(
 
Rest in peace little girl xxx

Well done for doing the best you could for her, and making her comfortable :)
 
I'm sorry that's horrible, I thought that you could get females fixed, but I wouldn't know I have a male. :(
 
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