but what he really wants is to get out and check out the female on the other side of the room.
...Boys!
This question of like-dislike being handled is one question that i have not found a true and satisfying answer yet. A little like you Summoner, i have had two chameleons so far that i used to be able to handle very easily, without them showing any sign of stress (like visible color changes, opening their mouth, fleeing, or getting bigger). However, their absence of stress-related behavior does not indicate me that they appreciate (or like) being handled.
In fact, chameleons can sometimes remain still even if they are stressed, scared or hurt. This leads me to the conclusion that it is impossible for me to validate either hypothesis ( a) they like being handled, and b) they don't).
My girlfriend and i even tried to see if they prefered being on me or her, and with several tries they both prefered being on me. But what does that mean? To me, absolutely nothing. The cloths i had, my odor and many other variables can explain it, without any link to them just loving me...Their preference may be explained by the fact that i take care of them more than my girlfriend, that i may be less stressed than her, who knows? I certainly don't!
At the end, if i were working in the chameleon biology or whatsoever, it would be one of the first question i would like to solve. I'd try to monitor every minor changes in their behavior and physiology (heat, coloration, respiration, and much more) to try to see if there is any quantitative value to get a proper and valid conclusion. But sadly i don't work in this domain and i do not own the proper instrument and knowledge to do so!
