Thank you all, I've had time to let it sink in but im suprised how much it can effect you. On further examination the vet said she may have had a problem with her bowels in general, perhaps genetic, she was very small for her age so maybe she just couldnt metabolize anymore, I wish she didnt have to go througth stressful enamas however, felt so sad for her all alone in the vets. I actually have a male chameleon in which iv had no problems with, and I didnt have a problem with my female laying until now, I do hope it wasnt my fault! Thank you for the support.