Hi crazy pet lady,
(boy I love your name.....lol)
here are a few ideas :
fist calm down.
as a new cham owner myself, I once thought my cham was not drinking on a regular basis...turns out he just waits untill he knows I'm not going to mist his cage anymore and he drinks like a fish (about 15 mins later).
the chances are he's eating...after all, some food is missing.
I like the idea of the blue bottlenose flys, but at his young age, I would use houseflys. you can get them at the same place mentioned already.
my guy didn't eat the first 2 days I got him, regardless that I was told he was eating fruit flys before he was shipped...but he didn't eat any fruit flys I gave him.
regardless that I think the fruit flys might have been too small for him to care, once I added in some houseflys my baby cham went crazy for them.
so try houseflys, you will see them disapear in under an hour.
if you want to watch him eat or anything else, get on the floor and sit a few feet away from the cage.
being lower then him will make him feel safe and secure.
my guy is now 6 1/2 months old, and he still gets alittle nervous if my head is above him, and as a baby he would be quite scared. so get low, and be still. don't move much at all if possable.
at this young age, try to leave him/her alone as much as posable.
yet at the same time, let him/her see you watching it from time to time while sitting low on the floor.
this will get you cham used to you while it walks around and hunts or basks in the lighted areas.
when feeding or misting, move slowly. no, ultra slow. the slower the better.
remember that you are a big monster in the cham's eyes, and it thinks that you might want to eat it.
I forgot where you live, but your humidity is too high right now.
so are your temps.
I would use a lower wattage lightbulb such as a 40W or lower.
I would mist less, maybe once in the morning and that's it.
to offer some water, I would just use a dripper 2 or 3 times a day.
he might be a shy drinker, or like mine just hates misting and getting wet...so just leave him alone and I'm sure he/she will drink behind your back.
(how do I know mine drinks behind my back? I used my video camera on a tripod to film him after I misted and drip water.
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by the way, if your room temps are too high (say 75F or higher) it will help give you ultra high temps and increase humidity...turning on some AC will help lower the temps and lower humidity as well.
at this young age it might be hard for you to find his/her poop and urates.
the urates from my cham at 6 weeks old was so hard to find, even though I was able to find his poops easy...so relax and calm down again. it will be fine.
keep feeding dusted crickets that are small enough for it to eat.
silkworms are another good choice but can be a pain for a newbie to care for.
they also grow quite fast and you'll be stuck with tons of silkies that are too big to eat.
such is life for a new owner of a baby...yes it sucks.
you can get small silkworms from mulbery farms...just ask for a cup of smalls, and they will send you like 50 tiny ones.
also ask for small butterworms...some might come too big, but they have alot of calcium and have plenty of water in them for hydration too.
(after buying so much bugs you'll wonder if your careing for a chameleon or are a crazy bug lady....
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above all, stay calm. your fine, and so is your cham.
soon you'll find more and more poopies/urates and less food in the cage.
all will be well in the end.
good luck, and keep asking questions if needed.
Harry
