Syn...I sympathize with your frustration...I'm older so grislier...
Texas Panther Man, you are talking about people who contact you as a breeder, right?
Not families that are shopping in pet stores....so, how is that equitable? I have said that the parents (who would be there....11 year olds do not drive) are vital to the decision on whether to sell a chameleon.
I have said that an adult who accepts responsibility is vital.
Are you telling me that you wouldn't sell a chameleon if there were a child in the house?
Because, if not, by my standard, it should be fine.
My daughter wanted a frog when she was 9 (note the second generation nerd/geek thing) we were obviously with her when she bought it, we listened to the drill and, for the most part, all she did was suffer hearing the crickets at night.... My husband and I did the feeding and cleaning and buying of feeders...we had that golden tree frog for 5 years.
Selling it to my 9 year old did not shorten its life because as in just about every situation in which a child buys an exotic, the parents were the ones agreeing to take care of the animal.