Okay...here's the thing. Some cham owners believe that you can train your cham to get used to being handled while others believe that whatever their personality is, it just is. I really don't know if either way is right or wrong and I have no intentions of disputing one or the other. All you can do is try. I tend to go with the latter. I have some that are just plain cranky while others are super friendly. They all have the same cage setup, same plants, low traffic areas, same everything. Sometimes the glove method works. Sometimes the plant or stick for them to crawl out on their own works. Sometimes the way you present your hand works. I'm sure this doesn't help at deciding how to deal with her.Sorry!LOL Just try them all and go from there.