my girlfriend from russia

[Fate X]

i dont persue young girls unless they email me or call me.as i said im open to a whole age range of women 20-55 years of age.what im saying is young girls are not off the table.i prefer women in the late twenties to early 40's.
dont flip this into fate X obsessing over young women.
thanks for the nfo some of the things you said make sense.

 

[Dsignrguy]

Wow....just wow!!!

 

[Nicodemayo]

fate, i found a video of this russian woman

http://www.break.com/index/worlds-freakiest-chick2.html

 

[ifonlyunu61]

Makes me Laugh

LOL Never thought I would read all of this stuff here on the Chameleon Forum. Just when I thought I had escaped all of Yahoo's chat room craziness and found a group of people to talk about their pets.
Well I guess a 25 year old could be considered a pet if your in your 40's
Seriously, you will never meet this women...Might as well look at some good porn..., and spend your money on another Cham, join a dating service, or eharmony and get matched up with someone special

 

[Fate X]

fate, i found a video of this russian woman

http://www.break.com/index/worlds-freakiest-chick2.html

thats a interesting video.


the russian girls email from today.

Hello my favoriteI have taken the ticket, but only home Tomorrow I leave at 2 one o'clock in the afternoonI do not find other decisionI love you, I all the night long long shouted, that I cannot be with youFarewell, I cannot write more, in me again some tearAll men are identical.As soon as you ask you about the helpYou betray usAnd in photos my personElizaveta kiss

these last emails are shorter and dont make any sense really.

 

[Rocky]

she's mad that you wont send her money

 

[darla]

Hi, so sorry for the mess you are in. This caught my eye as my best friend is from Russia. I love her to death but... lets just say if I were looking for somebody she would not be one I would pick. I find her to be extremely rude and a spouse abuser. I've called her on it many times but that is how she was brought up. She has explained "how things are" where she is from and it's nothing like here. I'd look into some culture things before hooking up with anyone. If you're just looking for some friends to talk to, face book is a pretty fun place. I did the E Harmony thing and was impressed. I however found this great dude turned into a great dud. People may lie, or they may just believe what they are telling you so it's not actually a lie but still very untrue. Good luck.

















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[Kosmo]

and it’s situations like this that outline exactly why I’m single… Brace yourselves, incoming bitter “Kosmoesque” rant.

Fate first of all I need to say I feel where you’re coming from and I can understand why you want/wanted this to work out so badly. Who out there doesn’t want the perfect “ending” or relationship. With an average national divorce rate approaching 60% and more and more people turning to the internet to meet “Like minded singles” it’s no wonder that relationships are going to hell in a hand basket. Either way my friend, you’ve got my full support and I hope you find exactly what it is you’re looking for… I can confidently say this situation isn’t it… I suggest you wash your hands of it and walk away.

I find more and more society is turning loving relationships into a trivial matter, so much so that relationships are now a fashion statement more than anything else. Sure these shoes are popular and fashionable now, but in while newer cooler shoes will come along and the old ones don’t seem so interesting anymore, despite the fact they can cook a mean butter chicken. It is as though the emotion has been severed from the relationship. Bold statement, but how can I prove my point?

Its well known that sex sells, always has always will. Bill Hicks said it best (this isn’t a direct quote mind you) “The best advertisement is a completely naked woman with just words, Drink Coke”. Sad but true, you don’t see the ad out there yet, but give it time I’m sure we will. What’s worse now is the direct targeting of the single person. People have become so disenfranchised with themselves and with their social projections to the point they find the only way to be “understood” or “accepted” is by meeting on these dating sites… The argument has to be made, how much of you is really being posted on these sites? I can sit all day and develop a well tooled biography that makes me sound like a cunning linguist skilled hunter gatherer and god among men… but it doesn’t make it true. Perceptions and reality is easily skewed in a virtual world.

Now, seeing as though my lively hood is based on the internet and the creation/marketing of a web presences or ideas, I feel I’m educated on the subject enough to say these things. On the internet nothing is sacred and the ability to make a dollar is only limited to how far your moral code will flex. Sites target these disassociated people and sell directly to them (similar to this online scheme that we’ve been privy too). Isn’t it a sorry state of affairs when the desire to accumulate monetary wealth outweighs the desire to accumulate mental/emotional wealth, what’s worse still is societies willingness to see this as opportunity. It’s all nothing more than an exercise in exploitation and at its core is downright depressing. Is there not something fundamentally wrong with providing someone with false hope? Some may argue no, hope is still hope and thus important, regardless of how it is achieved, I however disagree. Because in the end, isn’t that exactly what selling sex or love is? If this isn’t depressing enough, think about what the future can bring! Oh the excitement of being screwed over mentally and financially but not physically… when really isn’t the latter what we wanted in the first place?!

I’ve always lived my life with by the motto of “Say what you mean, and mean what you say”. Some times that gets me some flack but at least I can say I’m no liar and wouldn’t take advantage of another. My morality is just not that flexible, maybe that’s why I’m not an elite or the super rich.

Now this isn’t to discredit the online dating world, to the contrary I see a great deal of potential, I just can’t for the life of me understand the need to exploit the sad and lonely… As they say, the rich get richer and the poor get poorer… and now the broken hearted get broke!

So who is there to blame? Do we blame Fate for wanting something potentially good to actually be true? Can we blame corporate America for doing exactly what a Capitalist nation does? Can we blame the people running these scams, who come from counties that are so broken that it is either a potential escape for some women, or food on the table for families? No, in fact we can’t blame any one person, or group. It’s a failed system that continues to fail and falter almost daily. The blame is on Men that want the trophy wife and ignore the substance that makes a person a person… The blame is on Women for wanting a plastic smile, or big pay checks missing the point entirely.

I cause as much of the problem as the next person. I am fully aware of the reasons why I’m single. It’s going to take a special lady to tolerate a “personality” as big as mine… It’s too frustrating to me to see people reaching out for something and never getting what they want or what they need from others, but then how easy is it to turn a blind eye… really. Either way, its complete BS that this had to happen in the first place.. I just hope it all works out in the end and no one gets hurt because of it.

Kos has spoken.

Cheers

 

[Chamgirl]

That last post is very thought provoking

 

[ifonlyunu61]

You can find love

The previous reply by Kosmo is thought provoking and disheartening, however love can be found on the internet!
My fiancee and I found each other in a chat room and have been together for over 3 years now I was not looking for love, it just found us...
I think what anyone looking for love has to realize is that you seriously have to pay attention and talk with the individual for months or longer and then imagine yourself spending time with that person based on your discussions and observations. It takes time and alot of it. Not impatience.
You also have to seriously take the picture and the profile of the person , throw it in the trash can, and then analyze whether this would be someone you want to have a relationship with regardless of age, weight, looks, religion, career etc....Unfortunately, it appears many folks can't do that and just get dissapointed.
Seriously, after reading the russian woman's last post to you is this someone you really thought you could have any kind of anything with??? Did you even care??? Did you just want to get laid by her???, Have a russian playboy pinup doll??? A token?? Hell, you could barely understand what the heck she was saying. Gotta be hard to develop a relationship when you can't even communicate. Obviously by your post about her you didn't seem to care anything about that, only that she was this russian bombshell with big boobs...
I don't think that has anything to do with being taken advantage of or a sign of the times. Men and women have been using their looks, monetary status etc. to lure others since the beginning of time. But not using your brain and thinking with your brain that is tucked in your boxer shorts...well it seems by doing that you get what you deserve.
I know what I said is harsh and I feel badly for you and anyone else that is lonely and does not have someone special in their lives, but get with the program. If you want to meet someone that you can have companionship with the women are out there, but we don't all look like Barbie and we are not 20 years old. Now if your Hugh Heffner go for it....if not you had better be realistic about the kind of woman you want and the kind of woman that would want to be with you.
I'm a very attractive woman and I can tell you that if the only reason a man wanted to be with me was my looks and had no interest in my brains, personality, interest, belief system etc...I would want nothing to do with such a grossly superficial person.

 

[Kosmo]

It’s not meant to be disheartening, only thought provoking. If I can make one or two people step back and take a different look at an idea or concept they wouldn’t normally, then I’ve accomplished what I had set out to do.

Ifonlyunu, you’re quite right when you say these methods have been in place since “the beginning of time”. I just feel it’s becoming more wide spread, and with social consciousness at the level it is now (or at the level I perceive it to be) we can potentially do something about it.

Again I’ve got no qualms with meeting others online, I think it’s an excellent way to broaden your horizons and meet people you couldn’t have otherwise… I just take issue with the direct targeting of people in “Need”, in any shape or form it presents itself. As embittered as I may have came accross in the rant I’m actually quite optimistic, just takes a bit of progressive thinking

Kos

 

[Ambanja panther mum]

OMG..... i can't belive i've just read the whole 26 pages of this ~ it sure had me gripped!!

 

[BocaJan]

Geesh, let's stop posting to this drivel that didn't require any more then about 1 page.

 

[chequepoint]

Geesh, let's stop posting to this drivel that didn't require any more then about 1 page.

Of course, because there is a scarcity of available pages on the internet.
Threads like this build community, generate traffic, and thus advertising impressions. I don't see a problem.

 

[Fate X]

The previous reply by Kosmo is thought provoking and disheartening, however love can be found on the internet!
My fiancee and I found each other in a chat room and have been together for over 3 years now I was not looking for love, it just found us...
I think what anyone looking for love has to realize is that you seriously have to pay attention and talk with the individual for months or longer and then imagine yourself spending time with that person based on your discussions and observations. It takes time and alot of it. Not impatience.
You also have to seriously take the picture and the profile of the person , throw it in the trash can, and then analyze whether this would be someone you want to have a relationship with regardless of age, weight, looks, religion, career etc....Unfortunately, it appears many folks can't do that and just get dissapointed.
Seriously, after reading the russian woman's last post to you is this someone you really thought you could have any kind of anything with??? Did you even care??? Did you just want to get laid by her???, Have a russian playboy pinup doll??? A token?? Hell, you could barely understand what the heck she was saying. Gotta be hard to develop a relationship when you can't even communicate. Obviously by your post about her you didn't seem to care anything about that, only that she was this russian bombshell with big boobs...
I don't think that has anything to do with being taken advantage of or a sign of the times. Men and women have been using their looks, monetary status etc. to lure others since the beginning of time. But not using your brain and thinking with your brain that is tucked in your boxer shorts...well it seems by doing that you get what you deserve.
I know what I said is harsh and I feel badly for you and anyone else that is lonely and does not have someone special in their lives, but get with the program. If you want to meet someone that you can have companionship with the women are out there, but we don't all look like Barbie and we are not 20 years old. Now if your Hugh Heffner go for it....if not you had better be realistic about the kind of woman you want and the kind of woman that would want to be with you.
I'm a very attractive woman and I can tell you that if the only reason a man wanted to be with me was my looks and had no interest in my brains, personality, interest, belief system etc...I would want nothing to do with such a grossly superficial person.

i like how she looks,she got a great body and cute eyes.
i didnt realize she was playing a scam til the 3rd email i think.
i did want to get to know her.i wanted to communicate with her via internet emails.i wanted to know what kind of person she was besides being beuatiful.
and i wanted her to know some things about me.
it never happened.

 

[Sang]

hmmm.. yah uh fate.. ima call shinanigans, if you knew it was a scam, why the hell would you want to know this person? ...scam=scummy POS that arn't worth even lookin at.

 

[ifonlyunu61]

I get that you like the way she looks...lol

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i like how she looks,she got a great body and cute eyes.
i didnt realize she was playing a scam til the 3rd email i think.
i did want to get to know her.i wanted to communicate with her via internet emails.i wanted to know what kind of person she was besides being beuatiful.
and i wanted her to know some things about me.
it never happened.

Okay, are you serious or is this some kind of joke???
Did you read anything I said or do you just like the attention of this all, because if you want attention that badly I would be happy to chat with you.

Seriously, I am sure you would have loved to get to know all of her. Do you also get that she was and never will be real in regards to you?? She is a fantasy and that you are acting foolishly over a scam...over some pictures, someone, or some people that want to take your friggin money!
Geez...I would like to screw Brad Pitt...,but unless I win a Billion dollars and could turn back the clock of time 20 years he will never and would never give me the time of day, and I would be a gullible, foolish, idiot if I ever thought anything different.

If you are that hung up on how someone looks save up all your money , go to Vegas, and hire yourself the most gorgeous looking hooker you can find for the weekend. She will be happy to talk to you, share thoughts, tell you about her life, have sex with you and then take your hard earned money. At least you will have something tangible for a few hours.

If your smart just start talking to women...any women and eventually you may find someone really special that honestly cares about you and not your money...but don't expect her to be a 20 year old Barbie....cause I believe after reading all of this that this is just not going to happen for you....

Good luck....

 

[ifonlyunu61]

I need to learn to downsize my responses...lol

hmmm.. yah uh fate.. ima call shinanigans, if you knew it was a scam, why the hell would you want to know this person? ...scam=scummy POS that arn't worth even lookin at.

Can't believe I typed all that I did...Sang I think you said it all in one sentence...lmao

 

[The3rdMan]

Absolutely the last thing I thought Id read about here

All I can say is...WOW. Fate you have to be joking....I can't figure out which is more unbelievable, your internet russian girlfriend or your posts. If your responses are sincere then time to get off the net because you are too naive and gullible. Get into a good group therapy session - not meant as a put down just sound advice.

 

[Sang]

LOL...ifon...


im done reading this, LOL please everyone just let this thread die, so we don't have to be reminded about this.


OH, and Ifon...your boxer pups..they are just amazing loookin, my favorite breed of dog.