Never thought I would read all of this stuff here on the Chameleon Forum. Just when I thought I had escaped all of Yahoo's chat room craziness and found a group of people to talk about their pets.
I was not looking for love, it just found us...
The previous reply by Kosmo is thought provoking and disheartening, however love can be found on the internet!
My fiancee and I found each other in a chat room and have been together for over 3 years now
I think what anyone looking for love has to realize is that you seriously have to pay attention and talk with the individual for months or longer and then imagine yourself spending time with that person based on your discussions and observations. It takes time and alot of it. Not impatience.
You also have to seriously take the picture and the profile of the person , throw it in the trash can, and then analyze whether this would be someone you want to have a relationship with regardless of age, weight, looks, religion, career etc....Unfortunately, it appears many folks can't do that and just get dissapointed.
Seriously, after reading the russian woman's last post to you is this someone you really thought you could have any kind of anything with??? Did you even care??? Did you just want to get laid by her???, Have a russian playboy pinup doll??? A token?? Hell, you could barely understand what the heck she was saying. Gotta be hard to develop a relationship when you can't even communicate. Obviously by your post about her you didn't seem to care anything about that, only that she was this russian bombshell with big boobs...
I don't think that has anything to do with being taken advantage of or a sign of the times. Men and women have been using their looks, monetary status etc. to lure others since the beginning of time. But not using your brain and thinking with your brain that is tucked in your boxer shorts...well it seems by doing that you get what you deserve.
I know what I said is harsh and I feel badly for you and anyone else that is lonely and does not have someone special in their lives, but get with the program. If you want to meet someone that you can have companionship with the women are out there, but we don't all look like Barbie and we are not 20 years old. Now if your Hugh Heffner go for it....if not you had better be realistic about the kind of woman you want and the kind of woman that would want to be with you.
I'm a very attractive woman and I can tell you that if the only reason a man wanted to be with me was my looks and had no interest in my brains, personality, interest, belief system etc...I would want nothing to do with such a grossly superficial person.
