Not sure what i'll do yet. My kids really wanted a male, we saw this baby's father at the reptile show here and thats how we decided to get a male, so we'd prefer to have a male, but not sure i want to give this one back. We dont handle it much since its still young and very shy, but it's become part of the family.Well hopefully they will do right by you. Not all will. What are you hoping they will do? Return the additional money paid for a male or take her back?