You said "do u think we should go bk to it when seemed to hate it"...go back to what??
What species is it?
Generally if only disturbed once it will go back to digging again and lay its eggs as long as it isn't disturbed again and you don't watch it while it's digging. She could dig he same hole or dig another but should settle on one and dig to completion, turn butt down, lay the eggs and fill the hole in, tamp it down and return to the branches hungry and thirsty.
Some will sleep in the hole and continue digging the next day and others will just keep digging. Some people leave the lights on and some turn them off...doesn't seem to matter.
Patience!!
Good luck!