My male veiled does the same thing .... I just ignore him and go about my business. If I need him to get out i just use one hand in front and scoop with the other. Then I get the look of "meany, I was trying to be scary." I still take him out every few days and hold him so that he learns that I am not bad, then I give him wax worms as a treat for being good and letting me hold him.
It worked for my female Veiled. It seems to be working for him too, he just likes to act bad at first. lol