You said...Has a uvb light on every day as with the heat light 12 hr rotation"...so no lights at night?(There should be no lots at night.)
You said..." I let him out of his cage 3 times a day to get real sunlight weather permitting"...so he's outside to get the sunlight?
You said...." My girls chameleon omg eats like hes never gonna eat again"... So it's a male for sure?
You said..."I am using all the recommend lights and supplements times and rotations i dont see what sending a pic of the brand of calcium is going to do so tgank you for your time ill bring him to a vet since all anyone can say is what are the supplements are u using your light.... My chameleon has everything recommended his cage and environment is set to how many experts have them. And i ment 2wice a month on the d3 n vitamins i mis spoke when i was checking my calendar because i already gave him d3 yesterday. Its every other week d3 vitamins"...we have to ask questions in order to determine what's going on so we can see why the tongue is a problem. There is a lot of bad information out there so for you to say that your chameleon has everything recommended...I have to ask myself...recommended by who? I hope you find a good chameleon vet to help you with your chameleon's tongue issue and that its corrected. There are lots of reasons for tongue problems...MBD, injury, nutrient imbalance, infection, etc....we try to rule out. Things so we can figure it out.
You said..."Also i dont see how not dusting 3 of his 8 can do any harm since he is getting the recommend levels of calcium with the 5 dusted and super worms dusted"...how do you know it's the right amount of calcium. The right amount of calcium is useless without the right amount of D3 to be able to use it, without right amount of vitamin A to work with the D3..without a proper balance of phos to calcium in the insects. How do the insects that are not dusted suddenly have the right balance of phos to calcium if they aren't dusted?
You said..."i dont see the point in feeding him excess calcium when it just gets prossed as waist and cant be absorbed anyway"...whether he absorbs it or not has to do with the amount of D3 in his system...and to some extent the balance between the D3 and the vitamin A.
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@Beman was trying to help you....no need to be rude. All supplements have different amount of calcium in them and different amount of D3. Some supplements have prEformed vitamin A and some have prOformed and may be less useful.
The questions we ask and the photos we ask for are to help us help you and try to solve the problems.