I'm sure you've searched the forums for this topic... you're not the only with this question/concern

and I have come across many great suggestions like those from
@nightanole. My first cham has been a total sweetheart, but if she wasnt, I'd have been asking the same questions.
I've learned that they are mostly a "look, don't touch" type pet. Which is fine except if you need to move them (outside, vet, cage cleaning, etc.). I'm glad you don't want to discard him
1. More foliage. No traffic. No attempts to hold. Let him settle in. I know it's been since Nov., but start over and make sure you are following the care sheets on this form 100%.
2. Slowly start to move the food where he needs to come out of hiding to get it. Then tongs, then cup feeding while you hold the cup. I held Ophelia's cup but didn't make eye contact

, then move close while tong feeding or hand feeding. I'm sure u get the idea... do each step until he settles into that one, then move on. Be patient.
3. I've had success getting O out of the cage by putting a horned worm on a branch I'm holding, wait til she was on the branch, then removed the branch from the cage, viola! I didn't have to actually grab her. I've read this suggestion by others too.
4. Eventually, hold their favorite food in ur hand and stretch ur arm out. Eventually, he will know u mean him no harm. They are pretty smart! My arm went to sleep several times, but she slowly got braver and now she's all over me at feeding time. It's almost annoying
