I am a new member here but just gonna throw some stuff out here till veteran members start replying, holding you cham actually stresses them out, ive had my baby for about 3 months and have only held her about 3 or 4 times, also you should have a dripper dripping down onto leaves for him to drink, it took me awhile to get it set to a place where she liked it. You should also have a UVB and a UVA bulb and a basking stop reaching into the 80's(gonna let soemome else give you info on an exact basking temp for ur chams age, i dont want to give you wrong info) . Also, they should NEVER eat insects you find in your house or outside it can be harmful to them. I am glad you turned to a forum to resolve some of your issues. Its hard to find valid info in pet stores, especially from petsmart and petco.