I totally get it. I was moving the feeder run all around looking for the right place for him to see it but it not fill up with water from mistings, holding worms in front of him until my arm felt like it was going to fall off, trying different worm-proof cups, trying different feeding times and qtys, trying every type of feeder I could find, going home at lunch to check on him and to see how many feeders he had left at noon. Unbelievably stressful! But he settled down eventually, no longer seemed terrified of me, and started eating really well and growing.