you guys just gave me so many nightmare scenarios in my head about moving haha but you also gave perfect ways to avoid scary dangerous stuff. Ill pad an old shoe box of mine with paper towels and put the lid on that (still has the two holes on both sides for air) and he will be on the lap of one of my parents for safe keeping. As for getting him out if he decides he is in no mood to come out I can put on this green flannel I have thats really big and use it to cover my hand to get under him. Usually just getting near him is the struggle but once he is on me he usually calms down and starts exploring.
Ive had a pet tarantula for around 4 years now and was always afraid of her when she would rear up all grumpy because I thought she would try and bite me but she never did
Then my old boy Gilligan which was a Veiled which I had for 3 months this past summer would constantly try to bite me getting him out of the cage because he was so sick he needed to go to the vet twice a week, (the store that sold him said he was around 8-9months but he was really 3-4 years and really really sick) so my dad started just reaching in and grabbing him which always hurt me to watch because I knew it stressed him out so much but it was the only way to try and help make his life better
My current boy Bowser is a red body blue bar panther and he was sweet and curious in his smaller cage, but since i moved him to his bigger cage he is more grumpy and not wanting to be touched so I havent held him as much as I used to.
I hope to remedy this at the place I am moving to because I think he is going off of the emotions I have where I am living now, but also the apartment im moving to already has a ceiling hook by the window where I want to put his cage so I can set up a free range now so maybe he wont be so grumpy all the time haha (of coarse when I'm not home he will be put back in his cage for safe keeping though)