Starting at the beginning of this thread since there are things that are bothering me about it all...
You said..."shes been digging in the sand now for 2-3 months. but i seen no eggs."...and..."she digs in the sand like 7-8 mins at a time and does it like 10 times a day please help"...they should only dig for a few days when they are looking to lay eggs. Are you sure that she was really digging a hole...or is she just pawing at the sand because she wants out of the cage?
You said the cage is next to the window and its cold there....you might end up with her developing a respiratory infection. I would move the cage away from the window. There won't be any UVB passing through the glass or plastic that's between her and the sun...so there's no real reason to keep her cage there.
You said..."i didnt know that the sand had to be wet and 12'' deep"...for future reference...the sand should only be moist enough to hold a tunnel...not sopping wet.
You said.."if she laid 70 eggs does than mean that i was feeding her to well and her lights are to much"...I don't think it has to do with the lights being strong at all. I'm not a vet and this is just what I think...but if you feed a veiled well for a couple of days after she lays the eggs and then cut her back on the feeding she will produce less eggs or no eggs. For the first clutch, its hard to determine when to cut them back since you don't know where she is in her cycle....this might help to explain it...
http://raisingkittytheveiledchameleon.blogspot.com/2007/12/keeping-female-veiled.html
You said..."i have a fountain in there it has a light to keep water flowing"...a light to keep the water flowing?? Can you explain please? Also, fountains are not recommended since they are hard to keep clean.
Since you've been having an issue with her tongue and her egglaying (large clutch) and you are interested in breeding could you fill out the questions in the "how to ask for help" thread at the top of the Health forum so we can see if there are any other changes you need to make?