i was thinking boy to thanks for answering my post i really thought i was just talking to myself there for a while and was worried about getting an answer
That actually looks like a female to me, although the pictures arent great.
To aid shedding, up the amount of misting times to allow humidity to rise. Also, you may want to give her 20 minute showers with luke warm water in your bathroom in order for her to hydrate herself. This will also aid in shedding.