Uhhh, ok.
I just thought maybe he'd enjoy it more than he did.

I guess i'll wait it out until he's older and maybe he'll like it. Again, i'm new to this and i'm just trying to do my best for my little dude. I lost my first Cham and I don't want it to happen again. I love him SO much and want the best for him. There are lots of views and opinions and sometimes it's hard to pick and choose which are the best. I'll just keep trying and see what HE likes and dislikes and go from there. Doesn't hurt to try everything once (if safe of course).
Based on what I've seen and read I think you're doing a fine job, PrettyInInk87. I am by no means an expert and have only recently started keeping chameleons myself. (Well, I should say a chameleon since we only have one!)
But, to your point, there is a lot of information out there and there are also a lot of views and opinions so it can be difficult to really know what the best or the correct advice is to follow. Plus, just as with any other breed of animal, while there are certainly a lot of commonalities and shared traits in chameleons they are each uniquely different in that they have their own personalities which will include likes and dislikes so I'd argue that what is true for some isn't necessarily true for others. For example -
- Some like to be misted while others hate it
- Some like to eat crickets while others won't touch them
- Some like to be handled more while others absolutely do not
- Some like showers while others will stress out
Personally, I really think that learning these things about your chameleon is part of the experience of owning one and part of the process of becoming a better owner for your chameleon. Since we can't really know for sure what they are thinking and/or feeling I use the term "like" to illustrate what we perceive they enjoy or don't enjoy only based on our observations of how they react when exposed to something in their environment that stimulates them...or doesn't for that matter! None of us really know what they are thinking and/or feeling and it's not like they are able to speak up and say, "hey, I really LOVE it when you feed the crickets kale, they taste delicious!" So, I don't think anyone can claim to have all the answers when it comes to chameleons and while they may find that something they do seems to work well with their own chameleon it doesn't mean that it will always be the case for others and vice versa.
That said, there is certainly a lot of important knowledge that can be gleaned from sharing information with other owners and finding similar patterns of success. With enough data producing similar results it's safe to say that we can come to conclusions about best practices that are not only based on consistent results but good common sense and even science. I think the CF is ABSOLUTELY the best single resource for information on chameleon husbandry, hands down, and I am so grateful to have found this site.
I've also come to realize, as I suspect you have, that there are a lot of members out here on CF with a lot of different backgrounds and experiences and just as many opinions and sometimes I'm just going to have to weigh all the information and formulate my own decision based on what I feel is best for my chameleon. In sharing my decisions I know I'm opening myself up to criticism from others who disagree or have had different experiences with their own chameleons and I have seen that out here on CF like any other forum where information is shared. However, I accept this is part of the process and don't let it discourage me from sharing because I think there's more to be gained from sharing than from not; the end justifies the means or, in some cases, "the meanies!"
As a previous post had stated, chameleons get rained on in the wild and aren't treated to mistings as they are in captivity. I often think about the fact that we are keeping animals that are not domesticated and would typically have to survive in much harsher if, albeit, more natural environments in the wild. I'm not always going to get it right and I know this but I will always try to do my very best and I think that's all anyone can hope for when it comes caring for any animal.