The whats so far.....
The male...
He is amazing 2.5 years old has produced 6 viable clutches that I know of all more than 8 months ago.
He has tongue issues so has to feed from a cup or he does a strange side ways sneak attack on hornworms and crickets.
He is not fat but not skinny average size healthy with good eyes although I think sometimes by his actions he may be a little cross-eyed.
diet: consists of gut loaded crickets, with a mix of cricket-crack and my own items like chlorella, marigold extract, bee pollen, hibiscus flower etc.. and a custom wet mix. Also hornworms, silkworms, dubias, hissers, butterworms, and the occasional moth and mantis, along with occasional greens and some veggies.
housing: He is in a 24"x36"x48" outdoor enclosure with misters and rain heads using good clean aged rain water. When temps are to low or high as I am in Dallas the cage is moved into a large room that is temp and humidity controlled.
The process...I have both put him in her cage and her in his, but usually put her in his. Originally when he stopped breeding he was very aggressive to the females attacking them and biting them like they were another male . Now he is sometimes aggressive towards them but usually flares his neck and hides on the back side of a branch all fired up but bashful. I have tried 9 different receptive females with him and only one has ever elicited a head tick. Which he did for 5 seconds and then went to the bottom of his branch to eat.
I have tried putting mirrors around his cage to get him reminded of what to be aggressive towards and I have tried housing him with another aggressive male for a while, I put a female in with them and the aggressive male mated with her. I have tried a few other things as well but so far all to no avail.
so any other great ideas or not so great ideas or..... ?