At long last my ambanjas mated yesterday, I saw them mating twice so removed him from her cage last night, this morning she has her gravid colours she's almost black I didn't know they changed colour so fast, do I put my male back in with her or do I keep them separated now.
Like I said it may be worth just showing the male to the female but if she doesn't allow him near her then that's because she's more than likely pregnant