I didn’t ask for yours or her opinions on what my roll and the interaction with my grandson would be over the care of the animal. You imposed your negative experiences on me because you failed to properly interact with your child on the responsibilities of pet ownership and or hobby commitment. On top of that you taught the child that regardless of the commitment he or she doesn’t have to be responsible for their decisions and somebody else will do it for you and ultimately get rid of the obligation. Great lesson folks. That’s what is wrong with our society today. Younger parents don’t know how to teach their children responsibilities. Now they’ll carry that lesson with them throughout their life. Keep up the good work folks.
I don’t know what is wrong with the people on this page. They want to give me everything but what I requested. All I requested was information on where chameleons were in-ethically released and live in the wild. I have the experiences to care for the animal and teach my grandchildren the responsibilities of getting animals. I’m sorry that you had to learn your lessons the hard way but I don’t. Please keep your negative comments to yourselves. I am not asking about your negative experiences only for positive information related to my request. I went through the gauntlet of questions and demonstrated that my experience far exceeds most. If you have information concerning my request please respond otherwise keep dwelling on your own negative experiences.
Very Curt but Respectfully,
I am 39 years old. I'm not a 20 year old father. I know what I'm doing with my child.
And it's because I've learned what I've learned about chameleon keeping, that my 6 year old son, can not handle his chameleon. Nor can he properly care for it. No 6 year old is doing this. Nor should they. It's dangerous to the chameleon, and it can be dangerous for the child.
The real problem here, is you lack knowledge on what it is like to care for a chameleon, and you seem unwilling to absorb the great information that has been given to you.
FYI, I have verbally (and used videos and pictures) to teach my son about chameleon care. He understands what HE needs to know when he's around our chameleon.
If you think a 6 year old child is ready to take good care of various bugs, feeding them, cleaning THEIR cages (we aren't even at the chameleon itself yet!), dusting them properly, providing multi-vitamins on a proper schedule, checking and adjusting the chameleons enclosure for proper temps and humidity, handling those said bugs, being able to separate a specific count of each bug every day and being able to remove them from one container to your chameleons enclosure, then I don't think anyone here can help you because, despite coming here you seem to have all the answers.
You are getting our opinions because you DID ask for our opinions and we are very happy to help you. Again, we aren't quite saying you should not get a chameleon. We are saying, it is not the right pet for a 4 year old child. The chameleon will have to be YOUR responsibility as
***it is NOT possible for a 4 year old child to take care of a chameleon***.
Should you choose to get a chameleon, we will gladly assist you on learning how to properly take care of him/her. However, hunting for a wild chameleon is
not recommended.
No one is saying you should not teach your child anything about chameleons. By all means, DO this! I do this with my son ALL the time. Just because he is not one the taking care of our chameleon, does not mean he is not learning about the chameleon and won't some day take care of them on his own.
You are assuming an AWFUL lot here regarding me as a parent, and more importantly, my son and how he is being raised. FWIW, my son is on the spectrum. He is high on the spectrum, but he is autistic. He is
INCREDIBLY intelligent, and very capable. He's even ahead of most children his age, up to a few years older. He can tell you every planet in the solar system, and he knows things that would blow your mind. Does your grandson know what a dodecahedron is? Because I doubt it. So let's not turn this into some personal thing. We are all here for the care of chameleons. To learn, and to teach.
Let's tone this down, and stop trying to turn it into some kind of competition over who knows what. Let's get grounded right now.
The reason you are here is because
**You do not know what you are doing with chameleons**
And that is okay! If you can't grasp that, I strongly think you should reconsider the type of pet you are trying to get your grandson. If you are unwilling to take on information from other people, you WILL fail as a chameleon keeper. And the chameleon will suffer as a result (which is what WE are trying to avoid happening on here because we care about chameleons). I guarantee it.
So where do we go from here? Are you willing to learn and be a part of this amazing community? Or are you just going to attack us for trying to help you?
I am STILL here, ready to assist you in any way I can if you want to become a chameleon keeper.