I remember the first time I asked for mediums and was shocked at the size! If the shop hadn't been so busy I would have asked for smaller ones instead, but pride got the better of me and I brought the 'mediums' home. I felt sick as I tried to get them out of the tub and into my roach box! My daughter videod the whole awful thing whilst crying with laughter! It does get easier, I promise! I can now pick the males up by their wings but I can't have ths icky scratchy feet touch my skin! The babies are soooo cute though, just like woodlice, lol!