Aww I know , get that a bit from my family ,just have low self esteem. Dk has only eaten 1 cricket since I got him ( that I was able to put on a leaf ) his feeders are in a cup ,I've just done a DIY feeder run for 2moro, at what point should I become concerned. ? I have considered putting him on / above a container with lots of crickets, ( but I don't want to overthink ,overreact ,or do anything 5oo hesty which could be counterproductive.