Suzi has good techniques. I think she or one of the other members also said to use a silk worm or something else to lure her out onto your hand. The video contest has a step by step video showing you how to do that.
I am convinced that I will always have a mean one. I am okay with that. I didn't get a Cham to hold if I wanted something to pet or hold I would get a hamster. Lol