Hi! Sorry to hear about your girl!
Some things from me:
The baths don't help chameleons like they do other reptiles, they only cause them stress.
How much do you feed her on feeding days?
Can you send a picture of her? Sometimes when girls are close to laying a clutch they poop a little...
Going to the vet can be frustrating because it can take some time to figure out what is going on...and unfortunately it can be expensive. I feel your pain on that.
You do want to make sure that you have an exotic vet with chameleon care experience. I am not a vet, and am only a hobbiest...
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A little info:
- Reptibreeze XL. Fantastic! Bigger is always better so if down the road you want to give your boy even more space you could purchase a second enclosure and attach it together to create a 4x2x4
- Real plants which are; devil's ivy, prayer, china doll...
Oh my gosh what a little darling!!! I believe you have a male as well. He is less than a year, its hard to guess ages because their size will be determined on the environment they grew up in...more food = bigger. How is your husbandry? Care to do a review to ensure you have everything dialed...