You can get most of the ficus plants and schefflera at Home Depot and Walmart and places like that...replace the soil with soil without fertilizers and vermiculite. Wash the leaves with warm soapy water and rinse well.
i dont know for sure but that looks like a female..other people will know better....definately check out this website: http://raisingkittytheveiledchameleon.blogspot.com/