If you want your wandering Jew to be less leggy you could trim it by a node and let it root in water
They tend to stretch like that when light is scarce
When it’s bushy and compact it tends to be happy
You are seeing some warning signs here of problems (refusing food even treats, breathing concerns and as beman pointed out abnormal fecal movement
These are all concerning
I’d call the vet you have an appointment with and see if they can get your guy in sooner
How long do we give these big tasty leaves before this guy wreaks havoc on them?
Thankfully I got my branches set up so he doesn’t trample the planter anymore 😅😅
(Thank you all for posting your terrorized plants, I’ve been driving myself crazy to keep my plants looking pretty with my veiled and it makes me feel better about my failed attempts to keep things lush and healthy)
If your parasite screen comes back negative it’s your green light to plan out a 2x2x4 cage when feasible I wish you best of luck.
I will second what I think @Beman said about sourcing bugs online as being safer than stores. A large reason is a lot of stores will cross contaminate their feeder...